As babies and toddlers, Arians are determined and fiesty. They are prone to accidents, as they are risk-takers from the moment they are born. From birth to 6 months, they are energetic and active, and often they are alert and friendly with others. As soon as they can smile, they will smile often, but they are loud when they demand attention. They don’t need much sleep, and are known for short naps instead of sleeping through the night.
From 6 to 18 months, they become more active; beginning to crawl and/or walk pretty quickly. This is the stage when parents begin to notice the Arian trait of impatience, because if the Arian doesn’t get what they want, they become frustrated easily, often turning into a nasty tantrum.
Arian kids are naturally more inquisitive than others. When an Arian child reaches 3 years old, they hone in on their curiosity by asking many questions about literally everything. The parents who answer their endless questions help them maintain their curiosity throughout their lives, so Google will be your an Arian parents best friend at this stage. In addition, the 3 year old Arian is capable of being rather rebellious, tending to become argumentative and questioning those in authority.
Between 3 to 5 years old, the Aries kid may begin experiencing a number and depth of powerful emotions. They can come across as volitile to their loved ones and other authority figures at this time, and while sweet and loving, they can become violent and angry very rapidly. At this stage, Arians take everything very personally and are highly sensitive. They get frustrated when their performance doesn’t measure up to their own expectations, and they manifest this frustration through violitle temper tantrums that can last for longer periods of time than the average kid.
As an Aries kid, you were likely enthusiastic, innovative, and excited to take on a new challenge. Natural risk-takers, the Arian kid is brave, couregous, and not one to follow others. Arian kids are creative and inventive thinkers who are seldom known for being dull. They are the first to climb the tallest trees, leap off a high ledge, or jump over fences. They are reckless and adventureous and difficult to tame.
During the Arianettes school ages, they are known for being confident and unconventional. It is not uncommon for the Feminine Aries to find herself in various unpleasant circumstances. The Arianette is fearless, adventureous, and independent from the beginning to the end of her school years, and even further into her adulthood. They are fearless and prone to wild streaks that balance out as they gets older. At this stage, the Feminine Aries have no problem being indignate with just an eye roll or an evil eye. Arianettes love pushing boundaries and will test every limit to excess.
The school-aged Feminine Aries is full of potential, and they often direct their boundless energy toward the positive aspects of their lives. They exude physical and mental energy, often coming up with innovative and even creative ways of doing everyday tasks. They do not respond well to environments that are too restictive but they need structure and achieveable limits. With the right tools and resources from a young age, the Feminine Aries becomes a very successful and content adult. They love being the leaders, and being in control, and the power rush of being in charge of everything in their environment. As they get older, they will want to be actively involved in family and household decisions.
The school-aged Feminine Aries has a lot of pride and their pride matters a ton to them. From a young age, the Arianettes are organized and great at arranging things. They are extroverted and enjoy social settings in which they are in control of the setting and conversation. The Arianettes demand that others respect their privacy and their need for space when necessary, because if not, the fiery of their temper will be unleashed and rebellion will take over.
Their impulsive natures allow them to see life as a huge adventure in which they plan to explore thoroughly without fear. They do not enjoy sitting idle or following the rules, they are often exploring their surroundings and touching or interacting with everything they see. As toddlers, they are always rushing around. Arians learn best from trial and error (experience and consequence) and will seldom take the advice of others. They live life on their own terms, preferring to make their own rules.
A Feminine Aries, like the Masculine Aries, loves to be the center of attention and often don’t care what anyone thinks of them. When they want something, they will put more energy than imaginable toward getting what they want.
Advice to Parents of an Aries
The Arianettes need a parent(s) that have exceptional patients and similar adventureous natures. Parents must learn to use their patients to teach the Arianettes how to be respectful and obey the rules. The best way to channel the Arianettes energy is to get them involved in physical activities like sports which give them structure.
The Feminine Aries loves to move quickly and impulsively, and sitting still is not their strong suit. Teaching the Arianettes to regulate their impulses will help prevent them from getting hurt now and in the future. They are known for starting tasks or projects, but struggle most of the time to complete them. As a parent, you can help your Feminine Aries to make a task list or to organize their project or task effectively so they stay on task and don’t give up so easily. Teaching them to complete what they start helps instill the patience they will need throughout their lives.
If you want your Feminine Aries to listen to you, do not make comments like, “slow down,” or “be patient,” because those comments will do nothing to support the impulsive balls of energy. Rather, if you want them to engage with you, become a great active listener. Showing them how to listen will intiate the transferring of patience from you to them through modeling the skill. This will also teach them how to think before they act.
The Feminine Aries needs constant attention from their parent(s) and are prone to feeling dejected when they do not receive the attention they need. When they achieve a goal or perform a task, they seek and need recognition from you to keep moving forward optimistically. Your most important task as a parent to an Aries is to discourage unhelpful or undesirable behaviors from a young age. Teach your Aries how to be assertive without being angry or aggressive, teach them about humility, and help how to make room for others by nullifying their “Me first” stance in life.